Lets make a trip to the inconvenience store

So first, as usual I need to preface this blog entry with something; this blog entry is not directed at anyone in particular, this is just an observation and pet peeve I have dealt with for many years and its time to let everyone know.


I'm not sure if its because I grew up in Cary, or people are just self-centered, or oblivious, or it just merely the American way, but it becomes more and more apparent that people are overall inconsiderate every day.

One situation I have dealt with since I have been able to drive, is driving others. I don't mind driving other people around, I do mind when other people make me wait. If i am going to pick you up, be ready. I hate sitting outside of your house, so that you can decide what to wear. I gave you a specific time to be ready and I usually run 5 minutes late, so that gives you a buffer, don't inconvenience me, especially if I have to be somewhere and I am doing you a favor. That's being self centered and failing to see that someone is going out of their way for you and then you are making them wait, and making them late. If it is a situation you can't handle, like Kristen had a doctors appointment and was late coming back and called to tell me, thats one thing and I understand. Its another, when you don't call and then dont even call when I am there beeping my horn and waiting. It is not until I call you and you pick up saying, "oh it will just be a minute" and then that minute turns into 10.

Inconvenience example two: There is a girl in my French class, didnt have the book and we had a test in 2 days, so she asks if she can borrow mine for an hour, make copies in the library and will return it to me when I'm on a break at lunch. So i lend it to her and call her around 12:30 when she said she would be done with it. "Oh, I decided to get something to eat, Ill have it around 12:50." She knows I'm at the library, comes in there at 12:50 and says "oh I just finished eating, I'm going to copy it now. Ill give it to you in like 30 minutes." I had class at 1, so i told her to meet me at 1:50 outside the library no later, because I have another class across campus in 10 minutes. I get out of class go down there and she isnt there. I call her, she doesnt pick up. It is not until several minutes later that she shows up and I have to haul ass across campus. Because of her inability to realize that this was severly inconveniencing me and I was doing her a favor, is ridiculous. Oh and she also sits next to me and copies off of some of my quizzes. great.


When someone borrows something. Kind of refers to the story above. How many times have you lent someone clothes, shoes, a book, or anything, and don't get it back until you go and get it. And then sometimes when you get it back, it is damaged somehow. This is why I no longer lend clothes out. I have been screwed over so many times. I either never get it back, or they are stained, stretched out or I have to go and get it and atleast a month has passed.


When someone says they will do something and dont. Like if youre in a group project and if you assign a certain section to one of the kids in the group and when the group meets the next time, ohhh they were sooo busy they couldnt do it. Just admit to why you didnt do it. You got too drunk and were too hungover and lazy to do it. I won't respect you anymore for saying that, but dont make up some stupid lie about having to do something else, when really you were being a selflish bastard and inconveniencing everyone else!

I also hate when everyone expects everything to be their way everytime and because I'm better at being a bitch towards you behind your back, instead of to your face like you deserve, I just let you get it, everytime.

I may be a giant bitch, but I am always waiting outside when someone is going to pick me up, if I say im going to do something by a certain time, I do and there are only like two things in the past I forgot to return. So fuck all of you inconveniencing whores. Its your fault this world is fucked over.. well ok, maybe not. but you certainly ad a lot of anger to it.